hey, i’m the Dead Mom therapist.
Welcome, dead mom bestie, to my griefy corner of the internet. I hate that you're here, but I love that you found me!
I’m Miranda Malone, clinical therapist turned grief guide, dead mom girlie, and the founder of The Dead Mom Club.
Your mom died. You didn’t.
The Dead Mom Club is where you come alive again. It is a grief community for motherless daughters, offering connection, resources, and meaning for GrievHERS who are ready to stop surviving their loss and start belonging to their lives again.
Find your way in
However your dead mom grief shows up, there’s a place for you here.
A little bit death. A little bit disco
Here, your dead mom grief doesn’t have to be beige. The Dead Mom Club is a modern grief community for GrievHERS Led by Miranda Malone, this space blends psychology, ritual, and community to help women integrate loss, reclaim belonging, and feel at home in themselves again. This is grief without platitudes, sacred, real, and shared.
Girl, is this you?
❤️🔥 Your mom died and life kept moving, even though something in you didn’t.
❤️🔥 You’re capable, self-aware, and “doing fine,” but underneath it all, you carry a quiet grief that shows up in your relationships, your nervous system, and your sense of belonging.
❤️🔥 You feel older than your peers.
❤️🔥 You crave depth, meaning, and spirituality but roll your eyes at beige wellness and empty platitudes.
❤️🔥 You’ve done the therapy, read the books, and still feel like something is missing.
❤️🔥 You’re tired of explaining your grief or minimizing it to make others comfortable.
❤️🔥 You don’t want to “move on.”
❤️🔥 You want to integrate what her loss shaped.
How this space helps
The Dead Mom Club exists to meet you where you are, not where grief culture says you should be. Here, you’ll find:
❤️🔥 Language for the grief you’ve been carrying quietly
❤️🔥 Community that understands without explanation
❤️🔥 Psychospiritual tools to reconnect you with yourself and your mother’s love
❤️🔥 Ritual, humor, and meaning-making that make grief feel alive, not heavy
This is a place to stop surviving your story and start belonging to it.
A little bit death. A little bit disco - here, your dead mom grief doesn’t have to be beige.
Hi, I’m Miranda, The Dead Mom Therapist
I lost my mom, Rosalie, when I was five months old, before I had words for grief, but it shaped every part of my life. I’m a clinical therapist turned grief guide, hypnotherapist, and I created this work for women whose mother loss didn’t end, it evolved.
The Dead Mom Club is where psychology, spirituality, and community meet, a place for GrievHERS to feel seen, held, and at home in themselves again.
Work with me 1:1
This is 1:1 grief guidance for the GrievHER who is ready to stop carrying everything alone and begin relating to their loss with depth, safety, and meaning.
Our Values: DISCO
Grief doesn’t end, it transforms, reflects. We meet it with depth, honesty, and a little bit of sparkle. Think: death meets disco.
I’ve had a disco ball hanging in my home since 2017. I have always loved their dazzling presence and have enjoyed something called “disco ball hour” every day which is my little hit of daily dopamine. I have also been drawn to the disco ball because it mirrors my grief so perfectly. It’s made of shattered glass, and yet when the pieces are gathered back together, it reflects light in every direction it turns.
This is what dead mom grief does to us.
We were shattered when our mothers died and still, somehow, here in this space, we learn how to glow again. Death meets disco because loss doesn’t end the story; it refracts it. From brokenness comes reflection, connection, and unexpected joy. The disco ball reminds us that even in grief, we are not dimmed, we become light in new directions.
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Duality
We hold light and dark at the same time. Grief and joy. Rage and reverence. Heaven and nightclub. You don’t have to choose one version of yourself here, all of you belongs.
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Integrity
This work is rooted in real care, trauma-informed practice, and lived experience. No bypassing. No toxic positivity. No healing because grief is not a disease. No pretending grief should look a certain way. What we offer is honest, ethical, and deeply intentional.
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Sacredness
Grief is holy. A beautiful, soulful journey. Love doesn’t die. When your mom died, the relationship didn’t and neither did you. Loss deserves ritual, reverence, and space to be honored. We treat grief as something meaningful, not something to rush through. We create a sacred relationship with it as it will be there for life.
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Community
Arguably the pillar value of The Dead Mom Club. Healing can never happen in isolation. Here, our grief is held, together; in shared language, laughter, tears, and recognition. We know what it is like to be in spaces where you are “that dead mom girl.” Here, your dead mom is normal and we want to hear about her. No explanation. No softening. Just witnessing and validation.
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Ownership
Your grief is yours, and so is your becoming. We support you in reclaiming your story, your identity, and your life after loss. Every belief system, culture, identity and ideology is welcome in this space because it is all correct. And we want you to own that in a way that allows you to weave your dead mom grief into the rest of your life. You are not broken. You are shaped, and still becoming.
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